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16 Feb
I was recently reminded of the challenging and difficult decisions that we must make in the business world…especially those that cause many sleepless nights and constant second guessing. As a business owner I’m often faced with such decisions yet I rarely find myself losing sleep or second guessing myself. I’ve been raised to follow your heart and do what I know is right…even if it hurts.

Without naming names or getting into too much detail, several months ago I was faced with such a rare situation – in the first year of my business. Even though the end result was one of the most important decisions I’ve made in my young career as the owner of my company, it didn’t make the situation any easier to deal with at the time.
Several months back we had just started working with a new client who had an amazing new technology. After several months of sharing ideas and swapping business philosophies, we were eager to get started on this new client. Surprisingly, our first task was to support a decision they had made to litigate against a competitor infringing on their technology patent instead of leading with the various positive story angles around their innovative technology. We agreed to support such an announcement but advised that we shouldn’t be proactive with our outreach as with any litigation, they couldn’t get into details about the lawsuit at the end of the day. A story came out in a popular technology blog that the client viewed as unfavorable and ironically, this blog also happened to have a partnership with the competitor they had just named in a lawsuit. Here is the kicker…the very next day this blog was added to the lawsuit despite the hundreds of other partners this competitor had…the blog was the only partner added. That’s when my ethical radar kicked in.
To make a long story shorter, I made the decision to let that client go. Not because I didn’t agree that fighting for your patented technology was the right thing to do, but because they were leveraging litigation to get back at an unfavorable blog post. Not to mention my name & my firm’s name was on the release.
The reason I’m sharing this story with each of you is not to discuss if it was right or wrong to make this decision (I am at peace of mind today about my decision), but to remind each one of you to follow your heart and above all else…make the right decision, no matter how wrong it might feel at the time.
Have you ever looked back on a decision you made in business (or life) and no matter how hard it was to stomach at the time, felt refreshed that you truly did the right thing?
I’ll leave you with the words of the wise and crafty Mark Twain…”Always do right – - this will gratify some and astonish the rest.”
Matt

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4 Responses for "When Doing What’s Right Feels So Wrong"
Though I haven’t been in a situation like that (yet) it reminds me of a similar story about a major New York PR agency.
Basically, their client had a premium file-sharing app that would make it *legal* to file-share P2P and .torrents. Um.. no…
Anyhoo… their client made the noise that their tech was so much better than the amateurish technology used by bit torrent users everywhere. Wrong people to upset.
Cue flame wars, forums on fire bashing this new technology and calling the PR agency idiots for promoting a product that hadn’t even been beta tested properly – when used it froze people’s computers. Every time.
Moral of the story (and yours)? Sometimes it’s best to say no, like you did. The NY agency could learn a lot from you, Matt
Danny, I think you hit it on the head when you say, “sometimes it’s best to say no.”
I feel for that agency. In fact, we’ve become a lot more cautious on our new business processes to make sure we’re engaged for all the right reasons. I just wish more firms (and businesses in general) would apply a code of ethics to their decisions. Honestly, when doing so you feel a whole lot better about the end result:).
Thanks for your comments!
Matt,
Sometimes in PR, especially as a business owner, those are decisions that we face and you made the right one. When ethics come into play, you have think about the livelihood of your company, your ability to gain new clients and your availability to other clients who still need attention.
Having experienced a similar situation to degree myself, it is best to separate yourself from any related ties to the client because somehow you may end up suffering consequences long after your client’s aftermath has past.
Great job!
Thanks for your comment, Aerial. Looking back on the situation, I made a very swift and quick decision to pull the plug on this client. I did spend several sleepless nights questioning such an immediate decision, but looking back on the situation several months later…I know it was right for my business, employees, clients and reputation. The ultimate lesson I learned was to not second guess your instincts if your make such decisions when putting your ethics first.
Again, I appreciate you joining the conversation!
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