Helping You Build Relationships
10 Mar
How many times over the past several months have you been asked about social media (i.e., blogging, Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, etc.)? Perhaps your family heard you talking about your Facebook page, a client overheard you mention something about your blog or perhaps a neighbor just learned about YouTube because a friend forwarded them a hilarious video. For whatever reason you have all of a sudden been singled out as an “expert” because you are participating across multiple social media platforms.
I’ve recently had this exact thing happen to me and I typically respond by saying, “I’m certainly not an ‘expert’ but I consider myself and advocate.” Unless you’re Chris Brogan or a small handful of others that have been playing in this space from the very beginning, you likely aren’t an expert. Plus since this space is evolving every single day, just by nature of participation, we are all learning as we move along.
I would recommend that each of you reading this post strongly consider how you are positioning yourself in this ever changing space. I think there is an amazing opportunity to advocate (specifically to the business world) the basics of social media so folks aren’t jumping into these platforms without a clear understanding of how they work & how they work to your advantage. Here are 5 speaking points I use with anyone to educate them on the basics of using social media:
What do you say to people who ask about social media as a whole or these specific platforms? Do you consider yourself to be an advocate? Personally, anyone who is willing to share their best practices and has proven (measurable) success should be talking to everyone experimenting with social media. If we don’t, this space that we all cherish and appreciate could quickly be flooded by folks that DON’T get it…and that would suck:).
Matt

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7 Responses for "Stop! Don’t Use Social Media…Yet."
Matt,
Great thoughts here. The only thing I’d add to #1 is that there is sometimes room for ads and the like.
For example, I don’t think there is anything wrong with a performance tire company sponsoring a message board or message forum for car enthusiasts. And, as part of the sponsorship, that they have some banner advertising to go along with it. In this case, they are funding the means by which these car enthusiasts can gather together and connect.
I’d recommend they then have some employees interact on the message board – with full disclosure – and answer questions, interact, connect. Not to push products, but to share knowledge and insights that position them and, indirectly, the tire company as the go-to source for info.
So, I agree that when it comes to social media participation, you shouldn’t push ads or press releases. But I do think we should be recommending sponsorships and online advertising that complements, when appropriate, the overall social media strategy.
Good description Matt… and I’d agree with @dmullen too.
The one big thing that we forget is that Social Media exists in a very different way for those who are not communicators/marketers… i.e. people not involved in the medium.
The other side of the coin has to be to think of what SM means to those who use its tools as ‘receivers’. Which is why I like answer #1… and I like that you tried to really simplify it!
To the common user Social Media is nothing more than a fancy way to keep in touch with friends and family and to exchange information (personal news, opinions, discoveries, etc).
The only reason I bring this up is that sometimes with SM we start running before we determine what the course is. Understanding the needs of the users will have an enormous impact on what is done.
In the same way that we say you have to understand bloggers before reaching out to them, we have to understand our audiences (their desires, tolerances, etc) before we can get into what aspects of SM are meaningful.
So, back to the simplifying of that 1st point (stream-of-consciousness typing on max!) maybe something like… ‘When people talk about ‘social media’ (and use “air quotes” there) they really just mean places online – basically websites – where you get to interact with people. You can choose who you want to exchange things with and how much info you want to expose. It’s really about sharing news, information, and ‘stuff’ that makes sense to the group you are in contact with.’
Nice post, Matt! As we all gain our own understanding of what Social Media is and is NOT, this should serve as a good checklist of sorts – especially as we (those who may be ‘in the know’ more than others) help some ‘newbies’ navigate their way thru this big world of social media.
I would add one more point (and only b/c I’ve had this kind of conversation with clients over the last several months) – be sure to have a bit of a reality check with folks that may think they are ready to dive in. I say this because unless you are committed to devoting some time (to listen, engage, listen some more, learn, listen some more, do some more engaging, etc.), getting yourself involved with social media will only disappoint.
In some cases, it could very well backfire on you – you certainly don’t want to be seen as showing up to the party only because someone told you to be there.
In my humble opinion, social media works best when it is full of folks that really want to be there (be it on Twitter, Facebook, etc.) – people are talking, sharing, yucking it up, etc. And it’s a GREAT time….for everyone!
Just gotta’ make sure that people know it takes time
Matt – smart post. my own personal view is that your bullet point #5 is absolutely one of the most critical. I’ll be giving a presentation to our investor relations group this week about the fact that social media is WAY more than setting up a Twitter or Facebook account. If you try and start an account before deciphering where you want the program to go you’re doomed to failure. Obviously, being the metrics driven dude that I am, I would say that your goals and objectives need to be measurable. Whether it’s just looking at page views, comments, number of followers, etc… you need to create some metrics that matter to people. Otherwise, you’ll be spending half of your waking life trying to convince people that what you are telling them is true. Show them numbers and they perk up.
Great post – I fully agree with your talking points about social media and that few of us are actual experts in this space. My business card says “social media evangelist” because I love talking about it and working/playing in this space, but I certainly wouldn’t call myself a guru. Social media and the web2.0 world is moving too fast for anyone to stay on top of it for long.
@Arik – I think you’re right that there are many different aspects of “social media” that I’m not covering here. Perhaps I’m more focused on “social networking.” Nonetheless, great perspective…as always.
@Jack – You bring up a very good point – keep your customer persona in mind at all times. Often we forget who we are targeting with our SM efforts…which also speaks volumes for #5:). Thanks for your thoughts!
@Narciso – If at all possible, I do everything possible to make sure folks don’t go into SM without understanding that they must be (1) consistent & (2) transparent. It does take a lot of time, but with a well thought out strategy, you can keep things measurable…including the time spent leveraging each platform. Great comments!
@Chuck – I like you more each time I hear from you:) – we must connect more often!
@Lara – I love “evangelist” as that encompasses so much more than just “advocacy.” Plus I do love leading with example:) Anxious to engage further with you!
I would agree wholeheartedly with Narciso’s point about time. The one thing I worry about with businesses jumping in now is the time commitment required to make lasting, genuine engagement work. Just like “real-world” relationships, this stuff takes time. You don’t build trusting relationships with your customers or stakeholders overnight. So, when an organization says it’s going to add social media work to a staff member’s already full plate, that scares me a little. But, as you said, we’re all continuing to learn each day. So, we’ll make some mistakes, but we’ll adapt, tweak and move forward with each passing failure.
When I think about your talking points (great idea), I think about explaining social media to my grandma (or my 4 year-old). It needs to be that simple. As Denzel Washington said in Philadelphia, “explain it to me like I’m a third grader.” At least that’s what I remember him saying
Point is, we need to be able to explain these concepts in simple, clear terms that everyone can understand. If we can’t do that, we’ve most likely already lost them.
@arikhanson
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